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San Diego has a reputation as a socially conservative, military town. But look a little closer and you'll find gay people everywhere (many military or retired), out in the open, holding hands in almost every neighborhood.
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Adult Depot Kurtz St
Fun theater in the back...the adult store was closed, but now it's open and even better. Clean guys, some m/f couples.
Vulcan Sauna
Free , but you can purchase more or lube at minimal cost. You will need them...got it on with three guys, and was ed. Took short nap, and was ed four more times before I left.
Confirmed 7d ago
Barnett Avenue Adult Superstore
The new lay out is two rooms each with two large screens one room playing straight (some ts movies) and one playing one straight and one gay . The 'straight' room has four rows of reclining black chairs (comfy but the…
Adult Emporium
New bookstore/Arcade with comfortable booths and plenty of off street parking All kinds of guys. I've seen several guys cruising in the book and toy area.
Gemini Adult Books
Movies are fair, mostly straight. Filled with straight (?) guys looking There's also an outside patio area where it gets HOT! All types
Club San Diego
Of San Diego's two gay bathhouses, Club San Diego (3955 4th Ave., 619-295-0850) has the location that's most central to the gay scene, as it's smack in the middle of Hillcrest, just a block off the main clubbing…
Romantix (formerly Midnight Adult Bookstore &Video Center)
There is one and one peep hole. All kinds of guys -- old, young, sailors, marines, tourists.
Blacks Beach
Long beach on the pacific. Plenty of sand and surf guys walking around all the time. Pack light as it's hard to get heavy stuff up and down trails. Anyone who doesn't like to wear clothes.
Adult Depot, Pacific HWY
9 Booths in total. Small theatre in the back.
Balboa Park, Morely Field
College guys, contractors, business guys on their lunch break, hungry of all types.
Aqua Day Spa
This is not an overtly explicit club but it is a must if you're into asian guys (Mostly Korean). Cruising is very suble but I've been here three times and there's definitely action going on.
Romantix (formerly Midnight Adult Books)
As of Sept., 2008 the arcade has 4 open s! mixed
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